Monday, September 30, 2013

The beginning

My first post : )  Where do I begin?  This blog is my journal of the path that myself and others will take to open a Children's Home for foster children in Northern Macomb County.  Fortunately, my son David is helping with this blog and computer stuff. 

When I was 8 years old my mother sponsored an 8 year old girl in the Detroit Baptist Home for Christmas.  I remember thinking how awful it would be to not feel wanted.  I couldn't stop thinking about school age children who were orphaned or taken from their families.  This stayed with me into my adult life. 

After having a child of my own, I prayed about fostering children.  Nearing retirement age and having 2 adult children, my husband agreed to looking into the possibility.  We went to a Christian foster adoption agency for their orientation.  My husband told me that he believed that God really wanted us to go through with it.  So we did all of the necessary things and became licensed.


We requested a 2-4 year old girl, specifically, no special needs children.  My mother was living with us and our son was 4, we thought this would be best.  God had other plans.  Our first child was a 20 month old boy.  When the agency called we could not turn him down.  He had been found in his crib 2 weeks from starving to death.  His mother was on the floor next to him dead.  His middle name was our son's name,  We had him for four months, when his father did everything he needed to do to get him back.  It was very hard and we cried a lot, but knew it was best for him.  And we know that we can pray for him for the rest of our lives.